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pausa: using a break to transform your career

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For most of us, life moves very rapidly. We jump from responsibilities to activities to thoughts and worries. It’s like we are on an automatic walkway. If we slow down, we risk falling off and all the balls we are juggling will drop. The extreme dis-ease of busyness prevents us from finding greater clarity.

Sometimes it takes a planned immersion into a slower moving culture to have the space to reflect and explore where your career is headed. I love to escape the cold of winter and travel closer to the Equator where life seems sleepy and steamy. Usually vacations afford us that time to slow down and leave behind heavy obligations. Pair that opportunity with an unhurried, warm community and you have the “pausa” which gives a break and allows your creative juices to flow.

When is the last time you took a “break” from your career? A career transition point can occur by choice or involuntarily. It can become a huge change or a small re-direction. You can be let go or you can let yourself leave.

If you are pleased at work, you may not pause to consider why. If you are in discomfort, you may lack the stamina to create new solutions. Both scenarios require your attention.

Consider those people who design their own career transition points on a regular basis through sabbaticals or project work. They view their commitments as short term, temporary. As such, they are regularly considering their interests and needs. Sylvia uses her I.T. expertise to work when needed and takes off to travel the world when she has a sufficient nest egg. She is continually asking herself, “what do I want now, personally and professionally?” Loyalty and status are not values for Sylvia. Freedom and flexibility are.

Business owners tend to actively review and regularly design their next steps. They employ a structured break or retreat to insure they are heading in the desired direction. Matt takes time quarterly to view the trends in his sales volume. He compares these figures with his annual goals. Additionally, he takes a reading break to stay on top of advancements in his field and sets up focus groups to get client input. Sometimes he takes a short vacation to completely unplug.

For those of you who are employees, often your career direction appears dictated by your organization and its leaders. You question what level of input you have as to your ongoing course. Your choices feel limited. But is that so?

As we mature in our career and life, we seek variety, change, and fulfillment. This desire propels us to become more proactive in our career path. Traditionally, annual reviews are a time for the employee to create growth goals and to express desires for the future. But who’s to say this is the only opportunity both for a review and a voice?

If you were to operate more as a free agent in your job, you would be alert to opportunities to improve performance and brainstorm ways to attract growth. As an employee it’s common to dream of how you would operate if you were the boss. But what stops you from advocating those ideas for everyone’s benefit?

Twenty years from now, you’ll be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do, than by the things you did do. So throw off the bowlines! Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, dream, and discover.”
Mark Twain

Creating a Career “Pausa”

Schedule a break
Luxuriate in nothingness
Be in an unfamiliar space
Get curious around possibilities
Try on one new perspective

Relax and see you on the path!

career exit strategies, making a plan, part 2

Two buses on highway in motion blur

“You just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan
You don’t need to be coy, Roy
Just get yourself free
Hop on the bus, Gus
You don’t need to discuss much
Just drop off the key, Lee
And get yourself free”

This chorus from the 70’s Paul Simon song “50 Ways to Leave your Lover” playfully talks about a very painful process: leaving a relationship. Perhaps you wish you could have 50 Ways to Leave your Current Job. About the only way above you can seriously use is “Make a New Plan”…

Your uncovered answers from last month to what you care about, what gets you in flow, and when you are at your best lead you to some clues regarding how you want to be spending your time. But often, we don’t believe we can earn money at something we truly love. You think: if only I could, if only it wasn’t so hard or impossible or unrealistic. If it feels so good, it can’t be right.  Says who?

The pain of not following your dreams makes everyday life very dissatisfying. Not being true to yourself saps your wellbeing.

“One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself”

Shannon L. Alder

What are you waiting for? You know people who waited and lost their opportunities through illness, disability, or death. You also know people who throw off caution and go for it. When you don’t pursue your passions, you may say “I’m waiting for the just right time”.

“If you wait, all that happens is you get older”

Larry McMurtry

The hard truth is there is no “Just Right” time. But acting now gives you the opportunity to discover what’s possible.

Taking initiative to pursue your interests comes in many forms. You can take a course, join a club, change jobs, volunteer, or establish a self study. Education at midlife looks different than that in early adulthood. Instead of a four year track that is pre-determined by higher education, you become responsible for putting together your specialized, independent study.

Lynn has worked in the financial services field for 15 years. She enjoys the client contact, but is weary of the pressure and sales aspect of her job. She dreams of something different and takes the leap to start adding new interests to her current life. “At least I can enjoy something in my off hours”, she thinks.

Growing up Lynn enjoyed childcare. Her children are grown, but Lynn decides to become a mentor to families at a local shelter. She finds meaning that is missing in her livelihood. Even after a particularly difficult day at work, Lynn grows energy through her interactions at the shelter.

So a door is opening for Lynn. Where it takes her depends on her curiosity in, desire for, and investigation of new fields. Whether this stays a hobby or becomes a career, depends on Lynn’s development of her learning track.

The experience of new skill building promotes confidence and vitality within you that can lead to changes. An investment in your future expands emotional connection. This connection to something unique gives you a sense of possibility and expansion.

With confidence and optimism you take action. Say you want to change jobs. By setting a deadline to leave, you help to make it happen. Telling others your plans also holds you accountable and increases completion. Self imposed deadlines help put your priorities in line with those from the outside. Once you create your desired outcome and deadline, you can work backward to identify small steps needed to accomplish your goals.

You can use the time before your deadline to:

Learn new skills
Investigate different fields
Volunteer
Informational interview
Apply for new jobs
Create opportunities where none exist
Save money
Plan a sabbatical

The concept of purposeful sabbaticals, where you prepare for new work as well as refresh and renew, is growing in popularity. Higher education historically has used sabbaticals for advanced study and research. But most workers are not provided this opportunity. Creating one yourself is extremely valuable when in career transition.

What you can do for yourself:

Choose a topic for independent study
Create a series of activities
Listen carefully to your reactions
Set a deadline for change in your livelihood
Establish the steps needed to reach your goals
Get in action

Happy travels and see you on the path!